New -Devestated and Feeling Hopeless

[Hurtin4certain]

Good job Ellis by not sending another email. Remember, the more you let his behaviour affect you, the less he cares. Its so weird how that works.

When my W knows Im hurting and obsessing and angry, it basically gives her the go ahead to go have a great time and not even think about our sitch.

But when Im detached, thats when I notice that she struggles. She will call or send me an instant message.

THe point is, let him go. Truly let him go Ellis. It's ok to let go, it really is. It doesnt mean you can never be back together with him. All it means is that right now, theres NOTHING you can do to make him reconsider.

Let go.