Lisa...follow through with YOUR plans...don't let H sidetrack you UNLESS he is doing the work HE NEEDS TO DO...then you can slow things down if you need to...otherwise...continue on your course to protect you and your children...
My thought...he might actually be thinking how much this will cost him in child support and alimony!...but I can assure you he isn't thinking about what is best for you and his family...tomorrow is Monday...not sure if the courts are open or not but you can check it out...if not some courts will post paperwork online that you can print off...at least you can get started...don't stop...keep moving forward with your plan...the only thing that should slow you down or stop you is IF H makes a REAL move to help himself...otherwise this is Lisa's life and she is going to take the reigns and go where she needs to for her and the kids!