he's looking for a new job and the focus has just shut down his libido which always happens when he's especially stressed..
That sort of happens to me.
I tend to think I have to earn the $$ to be looked upon as the provider, man in the lead, sort of like the ship's captain. I suppose I think I have to earn my W’s admiration before I am desired, which has something to do with protecting or providing, being responsible for the care of my family unit.
I don’t understand how a man can respect himself if his woman has to pay for things, as some free loading men do.