First, thanks for the support form me here in Iraq. Your w. adn mine sound a lot alike, except for the OM. There is not one of those....yet!
I, like you cannot understand how they can just turn off a switch like that. Love is a choice after a while, not a feeling.
Before I deployed, I was in a bar one night having dinner and a guy with short hair sat next to me at the bar. As he opened his wallet, I saw the military ID, so we started to talk. He came back from Iraq last year. His first night home, his wife had sex with him, and in the morning told him she wanted a divorce. No discussion...nothing. He had a great line which applies to all the attractiveness of a supposedly "exciting" new relationship.
He told me: "One you start doing bills, sharing the commode and cleaning up vomit from a sick kid at 4AM, the "magic" does wear off". To your WAW: Here's to a new year of vomiting children, bills and commodes!
Not that I wish your wife ill, but what is wrong with these WAWs. If you have patience, check out my Christmas thread from last year to see the kicks to the head I took. Our closest friends thought I was an "abused husband". I really have lost patience for it. The DB...all of it. I have seen some realy successes here, and most of them were when the LBS decided it was over and really started to get on with their lives. ****edited by sg******* Your W continues to threaten the D, but has not pulled the trigger...curious.
