Wow, you are almost me! Last year after my son was born I discovered that my husband had created a profile on match.com listed himself as divorced. That was just the beginning of it all (you'll have to go back and read my threads). Yet again, we are going through it again.. Half of me wants to stay and work it out, but the other half of me thinks about leaving.
Ann25 is sooo right!! My mind has been racing, I am thinking all negatives, and it has made me physically and emotionally sick - I am on two antidepressants, something for anxiety (think chest pain), something for sleep, and my blood pressure is scary high (153/115 as of yesterday, and I normally do not have blood pressure issues). I am really trying to get this fixed - our marriage is broken, and I want it fixed.
My husband told me yesterday that it annoyed him when I would call him all the time (he travels for work - sometimes gone days at a time), and it made him "sick of me". He did agree that in the last few months I quit calling him. So, what's the big deal?? I have made changes, but he has not. It's very frustrating.
