Corri, I'm sorry if I misguided you on the other thread. I wasn't seeking a public flogging as some form of cleansing punishment for myself.
I didn't feel misguided. And yes... you did ask me to hit you with both barrels, or something of that nature.
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I was seeking the 2x4's...I was seeking honesty and that is what I got. I wanted to be told the cold hard truths as someone that cheated on their spouse and not some sugar coated variety because of who I am on the message boards.
Really? You needed to be told, by the masses, what you already knew and felt yourself? And I'm saying KNOW. Not sensed. Not thought. I cannot believe you are trying to tell me you were not aware of the cold hard truth. THAT I don't buy.
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I wanted advice from anyone as to what I could do now that the damage was done.
Coated in 'poor me' language. (I don't blame you... but you cannot fix what you cannot own. If everyone HERE could forgive you your transgression... you could hold that up to Ms. IC, couldn't you? "See, Ms. IC? All those hardcore Relationship SSM folks can get past it...") Get my point?
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It was then that I realized that the only opinions that truly mattered were that of Miss IC and myself.
Exactly. See? Told you you were smart and you'd figure it out with no help from me.
