Hi Ket I really liked your post. I just posted a new thread that explains the dynamic in my own M. And I guess it just turns me off that he is so turned off by what turns me on (if that makes sense, lol). It's very invalidating. You were able to validate your H's fantasy and that brought you closer together. I wish my H would be more open to at least trying it out more. But he doesn't. And that's what makes me not even want to do the "vanilla" sex with him. I'm probably just making the situation worse, I know it, but I'm annoyed. Why do I want to have sex with a man who thinks what I like is a "huge turn off?" He might as well say I am a huge turn off. This sucks. I'm glad things are going better in your own SL. Sorry about the current job stressors though. Thanks for starting this thread.
