I am pretty new here, but after reading through your thread. I see a lot of the same in us. I am not very comfortable with my W not having any physical contact. What I would give for a kiss, or heck even a hug or a brush of my arm at this point.
I am early in my situation and take inspiration from everyone here that has been working on their situation for many months if not years now. I will make sure and check back in to see how things are going.
One story I can share is a friend of mine was divorced for over 4 years. For some reason his W finally realized she made a mistake, they are back together, remarried, and have been together for about 5 years now. If he can wait 4 years to fix things we can wait also. Hope that helps a little.


M: 30
W: 29
D: 4
S: 2
M: 7 years
Dropped bomb: 11/26/07
My sitch