Interesting article. Hard to relate as i watch my H destroy our marriage a piece at a time.
Amy, I read your thread. Sorry things are so hard for you.
I wish sometimes there was more encouragement for people to keep their marriages or at least try. This seems to be the only place where saving a marriage is not thought of as nuts. I have one friend who supports my efforts. She was a WAS more than once. She is only now seeing her part in her relationships. She also knows the OW my H is with. A bit of an insight for me.