trying, he is divorcing her. They are separated in the same house right now, and after Christmas he is moving out and getting an attorney. She is the one that asked for an open marriage and he laughed in her face. He has 'let her go' for now, so she is free to be an idiot, as Ohio_Mark says...
Journaling:
I am very tired. I hope this helps me sleep tonight. We ate pizza at my neighbors. H texted me and asked if he could come see the girls, I said fine. He came in, sheepishly, wondering if I had told my friend and her husband. Her husband is my H's very best friend and will be beyond disappointed when he finds out.
He said good night to the girls and left after awhile. I came home and put them to bed. Odd thing, D3 said she missed him and wanted to call him. She never ever says this. I told her we would send him a message in the morning. If she asked again, I was going to let her call. But I didn't want him to think I was doing it for any other reason than D3, especially since that never happens.
H did not pack anything and his work clothes are here. He'll be home at some point tonight. I am through fighting this 'kicking him out' fight. I can't win. Next week, when things start getting legal (I am calling Wednesday), then I'll fight again.
