This is probably going to be a very unpopular thread and I'm not calling anyone inparticular out on this, but I've witnessed something occuring on here that is disheartening to me.

Honesty. I like it allready. always popular with me.

Blackfoot, your post to IC felt like it was an attempt to berate and belittle IC. Something that you seem to be good at with your condescending remarks about women in general, all the while hiding behind your little shield of whatever. I'm going to be the first to stand up and say that IC is twice the man that you will ever be. Blackfoor, there is one thing that I will give you credit for and that is your comment about IC and his flirting, other than that, thank you for the material to line the bottom of my birdcage with.

Well maybe not completely honest. You dont consider that singling someone out?

Blackfoot, your post to IC felt like it was an attempt to berate and belittle IC.

Really? I thought it was me saying how I felt. I didnt berate or belittle IC anywhere. The part where I spoke about why juicing women with affairs doenst get lasting desire was true, and a general monologue. I do it with anyone and everyone here when I dissemble a dynamic. Including myself.

IC is a big boy and knows he is on a Public Forum. I thought it would be a good time to point out why that isnt a good idea as a lasting solution, because I have personally been asked that many times, and I KNOW there are men lurking here thinking 'Why shouldnt I just have an affair to get her desire going? It works, right? '
NO. it doesnt work, Longterm, because you arent fixing your problem. Your making MORE.

Something that you seem to be good at with your condescending remarks about women in general, all the while hiding behind your little shield of whatever.

Actually I call it my big pile of I dont care. It's really Not little. I have a feeling Ill be shoveling for a long time to move past it.
As far as my condescending remarks to women, you can choose to see it that way. Some people call it cocky and funny.
When it stops working, Ill stop using it. It was very very effective with x. In fact she specifically complained about it being missing in our R during the first seperation. She missed that I was impervious to her jousts. Honestly So did I.

In general I believe that I just state facts. Some people dont like facts, especially those that dont accept themselves. Another thing that gives me a hint that Im on the right path, is womens reactions whey they say things like 'YEAH!! thats what I want My H to do, when they listen or overhear me talking.'

I'm going to be the first to stand up and say that IC is twice the man that you will ever be.
Thank you for this personal attack on me. Much respect to you. I now feel like half the man I did before I read it. *tear*
Are you sure you didnt want to single anyone in particular out?

Blackfoot, there is one thing that I will give you credit for and that is your comment about IC and his flirting, other than that, thank you for the material to line the bottom of my birdcage with.
That was completely typical and predictable. I've set and executed the same dynamic (and always with prior warning-- because I do carry my claymore unsheathed. Im not covert or manipulative) so many times here-- to point it out to men, Im bored with explaining it. Hopefully the men understand what to do about it. If you dont want your puppy kicked, dont bring it out when you are weak and need caring for.
If they dont, Ill be happy to dissemble it again to the curious.

Her is a mental image. Imagine the overthrown king, who spent years protecting and providing for his serfs. One day, there is a coup and because of his error in judgement he finds himself on the streets surrounded by the people he formerly cared for (imperfectly).
How do they repay him. Typically and predictably, they tar, feather and put him in stocks .

other than that, thank you for the material to line the bottom of my birdcage with.
Your welcome. You are a woman, and it wasnt for you or Miss IC. I hope IC was able to see the advice I gave him at the end and takes me up on the other.
Cheyenne I thank you for your comments. It seems the tribal wars between blackfoot and cheyenne are not finished afterall. \:\)

at any rate youve reminded me no good deed goes unpunished.

Why am I on here defending IC? He's a good man and he is a MAN.
This we agree on. I will also add he is a Hu man.