Luv, You probably have those thoughts racing through your head "what if H really is contacting her?" Based on his response to you, especially asking if you were making it up, it doesn't ring true. At least not to me. And, if OW tends to act psycho, that probably explains it (the OW in my sitch tends to be psycho, too). She's also called my house, and also talked to my D14!
Sounds like the OW in your sitch is scorned, and is showing her true colors -- also similar to my sitch! In fact, I need to thank OW for her psycho behavior as it pretty much ended it with my H. I would think the same has happened in your sitch. OW in your sitch was dumped and is pissed off about it. So is OW in my sitch. Tough sh!t. She should not have gotten involved with a married man.
As far as the myspace page, I probably would have said the same thing ... let it be his choice. However, lately I take the more direct route with my H. If he does something that I'm not comfortable with, I tell him instead of brushing it off. Truth is, he is M, not D so that's what his page should say!
