still trying...update

[LuvMyHusband]

well, psycho woman (as I call her) called here today. I was busy, S13 answered the phone. I heard him say "no, he's not here right now" then "yes" then he tried to hand the phone to me. My hands were yucky since I was making tamales so told him to ask who it was. He was told "Julie". I took the phone (she's the only Julie I know) and said "what do you want and why are you calling here". I am ticked that my S13 have any contact with her. She launched into that I should know that she and H are talking and playing online again. I said "BS". She laughed and said that he may spend Christmas with me and the kids but not New Year's Eve. I'm guessing she was alluding that he would be with her. I told her BS again and told her to leave us alone. She then said "keep trying, but he doesn't give a F--K about you, that's why he says he's divorced on his myspace and aol profiles". I told her to not call here again and hung up on her. She tried to call back but I wouldn't pick up.

I decided to call H and tell him. When I told him what was said he immediately said it was BS too. That he hadn't had contact with her and couldn't understand why she would call. He did say that she has tried periodically to reach him but he ignores her calls and texts. (I hope this is true). I told him that maybe she was trying to see if he was here for Christmas, idk, or was trying to cause trouble between us which I was not going to allow.

He actually asked me if I was screwing with him and making it up. I got upset then and said he could talk to S13 bc he answered the phone. I said you know that she is nuts. look at the things she has done in the past. He kept saying he didn't know why she would now, I said "ever here of a woman scorned? if you are ignoring her, she is going to blame me".

I did ask about myspace. He tried to play if off and offered to change the D to M. I told him that I thought it was unkind of him to state he was D when he isn't but that I didn't want him to do it for me, I wanted whatever he decided to be his choice.

Any thoughts?