day by day

[theotherhalf]

lwb,

if you've read my sitch lately you'll know that I am completely with you 100%. I've made a mess of my things so I really don't know what to tell you. I am so sorry for you having to go through this. It is so unfair to all of us. I truly believe that one day all that what our WAS'S have done will one day come back and kick them square in the a*ses. It isn't right and somehow they know that but yet it doesn't stop them.

I do know now LBS that there is absolutely NOTHING we can do to change what they are doing. We have to stop letting them hurt us. Stop setting ourselves up to get knocked down again and again.

I guess for me I have made up my mind that if my H wants me out of his life that is what he is going to get. I WILL NOT call him, I WILL NOT go see him, I WILL NOT ask how he is or what he is doing, I WILL NOT pursue him. I know that there is nothing wrong with me it is his mess. IF he wants to be with this woman he has to come and get me.

I pray that you will find your strength and be able to get through this. Search your soul LWB it is there somewhere.

Love,
TOH