I will get started ASAP as I have heard nothing from my H. There is no legal seperation in Florida so it has to be full on D. I could go for food stamps and what they call TANF -temp. assistance for needy families. which is some sort of cash assistance- I have been doing my homework online.
I am knowledgeable enough in the legal dept to do my own D, but it still takes about 300.00 to file, I can only get assistance if I have filed domestic violence charges- which I should have so I will see what I can get there. I did go and get a credit card he doesn't know about when he left last time and my name is no longer on anything. I haven't even worn my rings since this last affair- I told him whenI felt ready I would put them on - HARSH ,i know but true. My heart is excited somewhat about a great future but I still have a hope for my H and I hate leaving him during his time of need. STUPID sounding I know but true
Love and thanks Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
