Well, I am having portable onsite storage containers brought over on the 27th of Dec. I'll pack in all the boxes and small stuff. They are being picked up on Jan 2nd and delivered to my new house Jan 3rd. H is renting a truck Jan 5th, will have his stepdad help him move the big stuff out of the apartment, come here unload what H plans to have here and then pack in what I am taking to my house (stuff too big for me to move into container by myself) and then we'll go to my house to unload that stuff.
My parents have offered to be here that day to help me; I am a little hesitant because my parents and his stepdad had a strained relationship before; now that this has happened, I don't know if there might be some snide words exchanged.
H plans to move back here to the house and do some things like paint the garage, finish the landscaping, put a coating on the garage floor--basically stuff he wanted to do but hasn't gotten to yet. My guess is that he is prepping it to sell.
H will be here in about 45 minutes. The last time he was here, I saw him looking at the shelf where we have a wedding pic, pics of us together, etc. Ugh.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
