Well I pulled back last night and W pursued. At my little gathering, W called and asked me to come over, said I couldn't I was the host. Then she said S was acting up and needed his dad to calm him down, just told her that she would have to deal with it.
Then late in the evening, she TM'ed me that S was down and if I would like to I could come over. Thought it sort of odd, especially when her tone on the call was peeved. So I TM'ed back that I would like to come over but I wouldn't unless she wanted me to. I know childish, she did extend an invite, but I just felt like she is trying to be nice to not hurt me.
Well from 11 to about 1 am, she called three times, I never picked up and she never left a VM. This morning when she dropped S off she asked why I didn't answer, said I didn't notice the calls until later and was having fun with friends. She seemed alright with it.
Then she goes on to say that she feels like she isn't being a mother and wants S tonight. Which I have no problem with since I have been watching for many weekends in a row.
Then on a later phone call, I just found out about an extended family party, I asked if I could take S for a few hours and would have him home by 8. She complains that it needs to be half an hour earlier because she is going clubbing tonight. There are those motherly instincts kicking in. Well she has to drive S to her mothers so she can watch him. I reply if that is the case I'll just keep him. She grips it's her weekend, and she wants to be with him. Boy the clubs have sure changed since I was out a lot, they didn't allow to many toddlers in the bar. I wonder what is favorite drink is? Fine I'll have him at your place when you need him there.
I sure hope she doesn't miss the hour when she has to pay the door charge, could you imagine how devastating that would be.
I have got to let go of the anger building, because we are spending X-mas together and possibly new years and a lot of progress could be made then, but I'm getting really irritated.
