I've got a protection mechanism thing going now, the master bedroom is a mess, and I don't really care to fix it. Because, if I do, and have any expectation that she might come back in, I'll be rejected, because I know she won't. But now, I can pretend she is rejecting the mess, and not me! At lest that's my self analyis. Pretty clever thinking, for a mae, I think.
Uhm Jeff....sweetie
The only thing I would think is YOU SEE? You can't even keep your room clean! This would make you more her son than her husband.
Clean the room dude. That will be a complete 180 when she gets home. Besides, having a mess around your comfort zone makes your mind a mess
Hugs
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
