My h was abused as a child and has gone through a lot of therapy, but this problem was unexpected. His past relationships didn't have the problem and he says it is because he actually feels connected to me!! Sometimes I wish he didn't because then we could have a normal relationship. He has said numerous times he would go back to therapy, but he never does. Too embarassed. I feel like I am in a hostage situation. Only it is guilt not shackles keeping me here. He just wants me to be supportive and patient.
