I have made changes and she has noticed them. In fact, she has said so and says I hope the changes make you happy. She has also said 'but its too late' several times. I hate that.
I guess whats killing me is she's giving up on me and my potential to be her ideal partner. I think I have figured out what it is we need most. It's effort towards us. It's making us the #1 priority. Its her feeling loved by me.
And...that she's not willing to give an effort at all towards any solutions to make our family again. She has just given up. I feel she owes at least the kids that opportunity to see what would happen if we worked on what it was that was missing from us. Its amazing how selfish so quickly she has become.
I didnt send the email. The only thing I sent was we could discuss it over dinner. Not sure why we would need to discuss a parenting plan if we are both in the same house. Other thing Lawyer told me was I hold a ton of cards here. If she files for something, it cannot come up in court for 11 months. Thus, if she wants to leave, she's going to have to do it on her own and would have to negotiate bigtime to get the finances out of me to buy a house asap.
