Well, from the what I know of you from on these boards, you seem like a wonderful person and he will be missing out on a lot if he doesn't come back. I know that having your S leave can be a big hit to the confidence in your self. I felt it too. I'm still not completely over it, but I am much more self assured these days. It seems like he is still open to having you around. I mean you did spend the night with him recently, correct? So even if he is "dating" it can't be very serious. Just be careful and don't let yourself get used.
Is it a shared bank account? If not, then you definitely shouldn't be looking at it. If it is, then you should probably consider getting one of your own so you can avoid finding stuff like this.
I just realized that my W took the computer that has all of the pictures on it, so I'm going to have to take some new pics of the pups. I'll send you an email in a couple days.
Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008