Hey F1- She has said she doesn't feel like she belongs here, what with all the testosterone,and stuff! But I don't think a sex change operation is the answer, for either of us!
We do try to split things up, I do all or at least most of the weekend cooking, the boys and I do the laundry, though not always to her satisfaction, the way SHE would do it. I'll need to tell the pan story on this this thread sometime, not now though. The boys help a lot with cleaning the family room, though she is definitely driving.
Handy, I can do, though sometimes it takes a kickstart. I'll try to concentrate on fixing that!
Oh, and despite the stuff we do, we still often hear that the house is a pig stye. Her house growing up well at least by the time I saw it, post high school, and more post college, was fairly museum quality. Don't really know how. we sure don't live up the that. I've got a protection mechanism thing going now, the master bedroom is a mess, and I don't really care to fix it. Because, if I do, and have any expectation that she might come back in, I'll be rejected, because I know she won't. But now, I can pretend she is rejecting the mess, and not me! At lest that's my self analyis. Pretty clever thinking, for a mae, I think.
