omg, lwb. omg. (((HUGS))). trust me, I know the anger...I know the ranting and the raving. and I know the pain. and I am sooo sorry. you don't deserve it. not at all.
wtf is up with him that he can't wait until after christmas???? seriously???? its bad enough...all of it is bad enough...but then to do this like that, to have so little respect for you or for his family, is just wrong on so many levels.
and I am even more angry about the date you had the other night...totally his doing, and he probably knew all along he was going out with ow.
I am ill for you.
call if you need to vent/talk/scream/cry. I'm here all day...am not going anywhere, except to try to rake my roof, so if I don't answer, that's where I am and I WILL call back.
take care of yourself. I want to go over there and kick your h in the shins. then aim a bit higher.
how dare he. how dare he. I'll tell you one thing your h and mine have in common, they have some freaking big balls. and are masters of delusional spins.
eta, yeah, detachment is key, but until you get there, remember my anything but credo. you've let him know your thoughts/your feelings/your anger/your hurt, now no more to him...send it our way. put it in your journal, call a friend, e-mail, vent here, whatever. he doesn't care...he isn't thinking clearly. not even close.
take care of yourself, lwb.
Last edited by SallyM; 12/22/0703:31 PM.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
