Lisa,

You are a mother, first and foremost, above and beyond a wife. You MUST protect those boys from the legacy that your H is most definetly slamming down on them. Your boys are learning from this man (that you continue to allow to be in their presence) how to behave as a grown man, how to treat a wife and how to treat children. The damage being done to them FAR exceeds any damage being done to you.

Save your boys. Little princess is not old enough yet to get the impression that how your H treats you is normal. How would you react if you knew one of your boys was treating his wife and kids this way? How would you react if you found out Kayla was being treated this way? What would you tell them?

Conquer the fear, put on your armor and protect your children. Your h can spin out of control all he needs to.

You need to be furious right now at what is being done to your kids!


"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt.
M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs.
D-22, S-18
I'm a survivor