thank you Jen & 25 yrs, your advice is very much appreciated.
I will re-read your advice and form a text to send to him.
I have h a text this morning, from what you have both adviced I think i've said the right thing.
I said I understand, i agreed i had said things i wasn't proud of apologised for all the hurt i've caused him. I said I didn't not answer the phones on purpose and maybe it would be a good idea to agree mutually convienient times to call each other.
Later I'll follow it up with both your advice.
Like you say he sounds confused, but at least he is thinking. I had no idea he was harbouring so much resentment and anger towards me. DO you think he will see my changes? What I learnt last night was to not react in a knee jerk way to his anger, which i did. I need to remain calm.
Thanks so much for posting today, i'm so very grateful to hear you advice.
Love
E x
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07