We have talked alot and she says she wants to move back home and sell her house that I bought in June. She wants to use that money to pay off the amount I borrowed and the extra to go toward her credit cards. That would be fine with me if she doesn't have another change of heart.
I think you're way too early to give this any serious consideration...for exactly the reason you point out in that last sentence.
Originally Posted By: jersting
She tells me all the time that she loves me and she is so happy that we are together again. She says she has called her lawyer a couple times to call this off but I haven't heard anything from the lawyers on that. I am not holding my breath on that but I am hopefull for us.
I think "hopeful, but cautious" is appropriate for you. I don't want to beat a dead horse, but don't let go of the counseling. Whether you/she think you need it or not, you do.
I'm hoping for good things for you. The happy endings are so few and far between. Happy holidays to you and best wishes for a very good new year.
