I understand. I'll try to get a couple brief questions for you. H is having an A (PA) and I haven't outed it to anyone yet. H denies it to me, but I've seen evidence. Just wanted your opinion on telling OW's H about it. He's getting suspicious, but I think I know A LOT more than he does!
Have a great holiday.
-SueS
Sue,
Absolutely, expose to the OW's husband. Don't you think he deserves to know?
a) He deserves to know. b) It will help put pressure on the affair. c) It will show your husband you're fighting for the marriage. d) It's the right thing to do.
If you want, post your e-mail address, and we can e-mail about my experiences with confrontation and exposure.