Lisa, you know no one can make that decision for you. Your H has moved in and out, you've uprooted your life and your kids, multiple ows, emotional/verbal/physical abuse. When he comes back again how will you change the pattern? What will be your boundaries? and how will you enforce those boundaries? We know how hard this is especially with the holidays, and you have the kids and an anniversary too. How are the kids? They are old enough to be so affected by what their dad is doing.
