I have written a very long email....I wanted to bring up some points. She says she in not confused and her thoughts are very clear. I wouldnt mind telling her why I think she is confused. I'm sure my email doesnt quite fit the DB'ing, but where am I now? this whole thing is spiraling down hill....
There is a reason that it isn't recommended by DB'ers... Because it does not work.
Just because it seems like the camel is dying doesn't mean you should shoot it in the head. Do you want to drive her further away so working on a plan for the kids becomes more stressful for you both?
