is he too young for MLC?

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I just don't know what to do with him. Yesterday he makes a plan with me to go shopping if D4 can go to grandparents for the night. So I make the arrangments for her, get ready to go and wait. He texted me about 6:40 asking what I'm doing? He's still an hour away waiting for food. I tell him it's too late to go because by the time he eats and gets here it will be late. So he tells me we will go today. I am upset by this and tell him so but I am going to go shopping by myself and I will talk to him later. He ends up showing up at the store I am at 2 and a half hours later. So we shopped for a bit and then he came back home with me. We had a nice night together and I woke up in a pretty good mood. That was until I checked my phone and found a text on there from a mutual friend telling me she was going to be at a concert with my H in January and wanted me to know because there are friends and my H is friends with her bro. They will be all going together.

So I question H on this because he knew I was going and he told me he wasn't able to get tickets. Of course he says to me that it was my X-mas gift but my other friend who got me my ticket screwed it up for me so he sold my ticket. He is keeping secrets again. i don't know why but he is. Yah I know it was suppose to be a surprise but why didn't he tell me when he found out I was going? Why hide it from me. And also, I don't think he really intended for me to go with him. He was trying to make me feel guilty for going with my friend. The whole thing is just crazy. I feel somedays he is trying to make me jealous and unstable. I am so friggin' confused right now.

Sorry so long today but this whole thing is weird.