Hello out there. I need encouragement/suggestions. My H had an affair 4 years ago. He ended it and we went to counseling. I can honestly say that the 2 years after the affair were very good and I grew to like my H more than ever. However, the next 2 years have not been so good. Lately I'm having 'flashbacks' i.e., I'll be driving down the road and horrible images from that time come back to me. I've also been experiencing awful dreams that center on him humiliating me or hurting me in some way. Furthermore, I have very little sexual or emotional desire for him. I feel as if I'm going backwards. Is this normal? Have others experienced this and should I be doing something?.....Help!
