H called today while I was shopping to see if I could pick D up. If you took the current situation away, the conversation could have been just one of our normal old H & W conversations....without the ILY at the end. He was nice, even made small talk about my car troubles. It was weird and it's these conversations that get me wondering what is going on his head? Does he feel how normal this is? Is there ANYTHING happening in his head that is making him wonder about his choices? I know I have to stop this thinking, but it is difficult at this time of year.
I get bothered too by H making small talk on the phone sometimes. It is so odd how he can act like everything is normal and then I won't hear from him for awhile.
Who decided that you won't go to your IL's party? I'm just curious because when I didn't go to IL's for Thanksgiving they all missed me. Then they found out about the S and told me I am still part of the family no matter what. I am fortunate that they really do love and care about me. I told H I plan on spending Christmas w/ the Ds and will be taking them to his family's functions. I said it was up to him what he does. At this point I don't know how he plans on spending the day. I probably won't know until that day because I won't ask. Maybe the Ds will. Anyway I talk to his family more than he does. Your H probably won't have much fun at his family gathering as they probably won't validate what he is doing.
