Originally Posted By: MaxP
My W's comment on the fact that I informed her that I saw her and her (probable) new man shopping at the weekend and was taken by surprise :
"I detected a change in tone and I did wonder if you might have seen me at the weekend. I have been wondering what to do/say about that."


Actually, the more I read this, the more ambiguous it becomes. So much so I no longer know what she means. It could be:

[1] I wondered how to tell you I am with someone else now.
[2] I wondered how to broach the subject of your change in mood.
[3] I actually saw you on Saturday and didn't like the fact ...
(a) ... you ignored me.
or (b) ... that you tried to ring me a few times afterwards.
or (c) ... that I think that you have been snooping (which I haven't).

The other odd things is she says 'saw me' not 'saw us'. Surely if she is getting letters addressed to the both of them, shopping together, visiting the city where he lives that is good evidence that they are a couple. I'm not going mad am I?


Me 36
W 37
Bomb (Easter 07)
Sep (WAW July 07)
"It's over" (end Oct 07)
T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)