I am lost on that answer too- That is my main issue b/c what if he gets better? worse? what if he gets the help he needs? what is he doesn't? I would love to remain married and hope that my love for him develops again- Love is a choice but I can't waste my life or my kids emotions so there is my dilema and I am sure we all have those same questions,lol, does anyone have that crystal ball ready yet?

Thanks
Lisa

Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12