I think that the feeling is mutual, being able to speak to you has helped me too! I think that when you can talk back and forth with someone especially when in anguish, it helps to work through it, and maybe by talking to someone else quickly prevents you from doing something that you may regret, as far as confronting your spouse.
I hope that everyone has a wonderful Christmas!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!