Hey B...ok...don't kill me for asking this, but do you think your W is at all upset that you didn't reach out to her over that time? Maybe you did (I think you said you left a message) and she didn't respond. Just the fact that you said she sounded like death warmed over...

I don't mean to rock the boat by suggesting you should have done something different...I think you did the right thing holding back and I'm not questioning it. I'm SO GLAD that she called you and that you have that PMA back. But I was just wondering if you thought that was a a possibility.

Anyway...did you guys talk about her plans for Christmas?
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out