thanks Atlas. Never thought about that. I'm pretty sure that he wouldn't have given details to his friend, but i didn't even think about what he might have told him. That helps.

yeah. i think he enjoys the sex once it's going and acts like he wants it in the evening, but keeps doing things that he probably thinks will get him out of it. Didn't work last night, i wonder how that will go over.

I'll get that one. Hopefully it will help. He's not a reader so he doesn't pay much attention to what I'm reading or what's on the bookshelf. I go through 2 or 3 big novels a month, so I'm always reading. I normally read the R books at work during lunch and when i'm up before him in the morning. I used to push him to read with me, but in know he doesn't care for that.

I really appreciate your post. I didn't know what happened last night. At least having a thought that it wasn't me personally, helps!! \:\) thanks.

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