Im not suggesting you are rude or anything like that. Im suggesting you make yourself BELEIVE that you are going to be just fine without her. Im going through this same thing myself.
So you suggest saying saying something like " thank you very much for the offer but............"
I read your threads and feel very bad for you but you are doing the right thing for your daughter. My WAW is neglecting my S11 school work, not helping him with his homework or study for his 1st semester exams he is taking this week and he is failing his classes. She then grounded him from computer games yesterday for him not studying on his own (she was at work with OM at the time) and S11 and D13 were home alone with S6 and D5. WAW's do not give a sh*t do they.
