Sounds like you're doing pretty good, "soul mate"...

except for this:
Originally Posted By: soul_mate
As for the situation most of the time I feel like sooner or later she is going to come back to me I just can't see it any other way.


If you feel that way, and you "cant see it any other way"... then are are much more likely to have a rude shock down the line.

Trixi felt that way, all the way through 3+ months of separation. She told her husband that she "knew he would be back". Sometimes, he even agreed "probably".

He's now pushing for divorce, and it will most likely happen. Even WITHOUT another person in the background.


If you keep that attitude.. you arent treating your situation as seriously as it deserves, I think.


Last edited by Dom R; 12/21/07 06:07 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle