I'm stealing this from DH4320's thread cause this is where it was supposed to be...
Originally Posted By: dh4320
i think your H has some definite self-esteem issues, especially after reading through more of your thread. The problems is that you cant fix that problem he needs to. You can compliment him up and down but it wont make a bit of a difference, has he gone to see a C?? did his self esteem go to the dumps after your EA?? just some thoughts but as a guy when the self esteem is crap we make sarcastic comments like he has to get some pitty and have our S's feel guilty..
He won't go see another C. I've asked him about both MC and IC, but no dice... Maybe eventually. I think his sefl esteem has always been a little shaky. He's always told me he doesn't think he's good enough for me or not smart enough. He used to accuse me of cheating all the time and say that someone better than him would come along and sweep me off my feet (his words) I have always reassured him and tried to let him know how awesome I think he is. The EA certainly didn't help though. He does that. I can tell. I just don't know how to respond to that very well. I don't do well with playing games. Sometimes i want to say "Just tell me whatever it is you want to say or don't bother... " i don't, of course, but it's frustrating.
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