I know I know.. Its one of my faults.. I avoid saying things like that because shes got such an irrational temper and I just dont want to deal with it. If I had said that she would have been mad, yelled at me for being crappy, turned it around on me saying somehting to the effect 'If you want to play games like that I can to" or "I didnt know I had to keep score of all the things you do for me so I can do them for you" or 'Well maybe if you would do ___ fo rme now and then id do ___ for you more" Theres always some way that she twists it to make it my fault that I didnt get what i want/need from the relationship.