That post was really convoluted BF. But about this:
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How I handle my personal -dont want to want- issues is my problem. Women arent attracted to needy men, but being needed makes anyone feel more secure. x had a high sex drive, but her desire was high for a reason. I could have worked on her feeling more secure, but thats not why she left me. She left when she lost her attraction.
You really see no connection between making her feel more secure and maintaining an attraction to you? Other people have stated you are basically all wolf. If that is the case, how did you even end up M? I think you need some puppy dog to get to that place. You let her in at one point and then you slammed the door on her. It wasn't after the A. BS. I don't know why you are so stubborn. The beer to slam doesn't have to be that way if he chooses not to be. You are obviously still choosing to project that image. Fine. It's your life. But my gut is telling me it's not really who you are and certainly not who you want to be. You wouldn't be posting on this message board if that was the case. You already know you are attractive as a man. Maybe you should focus more on maintaining that attraction long-term, unless you plan on never having kids, getting M again, or having any long-term sexual R's.
