I hadn't read your post for a while. I can't understand how they can figure it is all right to have the OW and live with you . My h like yours calls all the time, comes and takes me to lunch, breakfast and acts like nothing is wrong while he is living with OW. Where do they get off....
It is hard at the holidays...HUGS for you and stay strong.. The hardest thing I had to learn is that I can't control him not that I did but the choices whether they are right or wrong are his and he has to suffer the consquences. I can't be the anchor any more.