Yup! It was quite the battle. I've been in fist fights in my younger years that were pleasant compared to yesterdays battles. LOL! I did get alot off of my chest although nobody wins these battles in the end and they sure don't help in getting back together although I hope that we don't talk for at least a couple of months now. I'm 70/30 on wanting to get back together eventually but now is just not the time. Going to talk to a coach in January and get some input from an unbiased, outside source and see what he/she says. My decision making has seen better days so what the hell. Geeeez. Now I know what people on here mean by 'aliens' At first I thought is was just exaggeration and such and I laughed. Uh, I'm not laughing anymore.