...it could also be her hoping he'll step up and defend her -- fight for her. It's hard to say, but the GOOD news for mcol is, his response to either possibility can (and should) still be the same
Yep. I think it's actually not an either-or scenario. It's actually, I'm thinking, the exact same thing. Right now, while she's in her "wrong" mind, she's asking permission. Once she snaps back into reality, she'll realize that what she *really* (albeit likely subconsciously) wanted was for her H to fight for her.
mcol, remember this: the hardest thing you'll ever have to do is nothing at all.
I'm glad you're finding things that are occupying your mind.
We're all thinking of you ... and wish you could be surrounded by family and love this Christmas. Know we're there with you in spirit.
