The answer was staring me in the face all the time

[MaxP]

Finally emailed my W and let her know that I know about her new man (OM) when I saw them at the weekend.

The reply:

"I detected a change in tone and I did wonder if you might have seen me at the weekend. I have been wondering what to do/say about that."

Fantastic!

I've just had to save my reply to a draft folder, it's both too strong to send and expresses far too little of what I feel. "That" - nice summary of the situation there.

I just want to scream sometimes.

Max