That's why you and I would make a killer bar-hopping team -lol. I was going to ask you if you ever get annoyed with the opposite problem which would basically be men treating you too juvenile simply because of your appearance.
I have two different kinds of experiences in bars. One is, if I just sit and talk with my friends... NO ONE approaches me. No one.
Two... if I am my naturally, curious, friendly self... I talk with people I find interesting... and once I do that... my friends usually get annoyed because I am speaking with people I find interesting, not necessarily with guys who are 'in the sak' material.
In any event, guys either call me cute or hot, and most find me utterly perplexing because I've never left a bar with a guy and really don't want to (doesn't mean I won't ever, just that it's not really my style). And unless I am wearing something so obviously 'come fck me,'(<-- I think I did that once... oh god, that was a hoot and an utter failure) WHAT I wear really doesn't seem to have anything to do with whether they call me cute or hot.
Soooo.... I go out now and have MY fun and let the chips fall where they may. I'm tired of worrying about it... but holy smokes, do I have fun.
So. If you spot a guy you would like to speak with, I would have no problem figuring out a way to get that done.
I think you and I would just have a flipping BLAST... LOL!!!!
