I had just finished eating and was figuring out what I was going to do. W called.. she has conferences this week, so she was getting out of work late. The bad thing was she left D3's baby and blanket at school. She was frazzled.. yelling at the D's.. so I decided to go and get those items.
She called and asked if I had any money.. wanted me to pick up dinner, but I didn't have any cash on me and I was already at her place.
W was boo hooing about how stressed she was, how she doesn't deserve this.. especially around the holidays.. she said nobody deserves this. She complained about being fat.. her normal depression words. Little break here.. W has some serious issues in this department. I asked if she was going to counseling. She said no, but she needed to. I told her I would even pay the copay if she needed me to. I just really want her to get counseling.
So.. as I'm sitting there talking with W and hanging with the D's, there is a knock at the door. OM walks in with fast food. I told W I had to go and she asked "Why?" WTF WTF WTF?
As I leave, she follows me out the door.. I think she wanted a hug/kiss.. she told me how much it meant to her that I brought the doll and blanket.
This morning, she called about logistics around the swim party tonight. She again said how much she appreciated me getting those things. She also said "I'd like to say some other things to you, but it's not appropriate" Wonder what that's about?
Then.. she says she thinks that her and D5 need counseling. Evidently, D5 woke up in the middle of the night crying and screaming. W said she was sad and didn't know why.
Funny thing, she is never like that here. Yes she is very clingy, but I make sure and take care of her and spend time with her. I wonder if W is too butt blind to see that. I know she spoils them.. tries to be their friend instead of mother. She complains each time they go over there about how unruly they are.
Anyway.. I'm fine with the counseling. I think W needs her own, but not sure she will do that.
