I need my W in so many ways she was my best friend companion and lover all in one!
Why don't you concentrate on the friend part? Be caring and supportive, but not overbearing. You're not going to get anywhere without being friends first.
Originally Posted By: mrarow
She was and is a part of me
That doesn't sound a healthy way to think about it. She was a part of your life, but you existed before she was on the scene.
As for her being so negative - That's par for the course, and it's a stressful time of year for everyone. Folks are wound up, frustrated and everything is so very inconsistent. Just back off and spend some time on yourself. If you're still pushing her when you're together, just be sure to bite your tongue or start resolving your problems on your own.
