For ex. Corri would probably have loved if her x had taken up Ballroom dancing w/ her. or suggested something like it.
He took one dancing lesson with me and learned enough to wing it when we went out. Of course, I usually planned the night out, asked him to dance, and was generally the one responsible for fun and frivolity. It got to the point where I truly felt... "well, gosh, don't do me any favors, buddy." It was like he constantly looked at his watch wondering when I'd have my fill of 'fun' so we could go home and have sex.
It is COMPLETELY different when a man says... "hey, I'm going to go have some fun... wanna come with me?" And he goes and has fun doing his thing, and he looks to see if you are having fun, too, but he in no way feels responsible for it, nor expects you to be responsible for his. And that whole FUN thing has nothing to do with if/when you have sex (it's more like a hope, not an expectation...)
As for the rest of that stuff up there... uhm. Well. Okay. Whatever.
